S11 is just fine mate. He's handeling this like a pro.

As for the red flags. Nah she's not sending any signals. But with a mixture of what I've read here and other searches she's in the thick of a doozie. It's a shame really because I know what's coming for her. And I won't be there to pick up the piecies.

She is/was the perfect storm. And it's coming. It'll take a while yet because she's still seeking that perfection. You get that. And when it starts to crumble she'll transition from replay to depression. Which is what this has always been about. What a sad, sad state of affairs.

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Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.