Actually, I doubt that your W is having an MLC. You two got together when you were both very young. Did you ever break up and see other people?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER