Focus on Me and the Boys 9

[J5K]

Ginger,

Yep, I picked a real winner. I can only control what I own and choose to manage the money instead of her. I let her buy whatever she wanted when she wanted. No more. Done with that.

In all honesty I do not believe that she will care if I move back to Michigan once the boys are older, especially if there is a promotional opportunity for me. She seems to be fine either way, but we will see when the time comes.

I am tired of speculating what will happen to her in the future. I only care about saving as much money as I can right now to do things with the boys on my time. Once they are all in school full time we will see what the best location is for the boys and me. All I know is I can save money over the next 3 years by moving there.

I can't control how many times she exposes OM to the boys. I can control whether she watches them though. No expectations. Will decide when she takes action. Not looking to bully her either way about OM.