nutts I can tell you that you are not in the "Last Resort" stage. That's when you pretty much just agree to the D. So that advice doesn't apply. You have been smothering her so you need to back off a little. Think of the things that you're doing as calibration. You're going to swing back and forth from too much to too little. Right now she's mourning the OM and the last person she wants to be with is you. Just be friendly.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
