I think my wife is in MLC and it seems hopeless

[SBJ]

job...she filled out the papers Thursday, but did not file them. She says that she wants us to agree on everything.

She sends me an email today saying she is sad that I'm hurting and she is the one causing it. She said that just because she wants a D doesn't change the fact that she cares about me.

She says that we should be mature about the D so that we save $$$ and the kids see us handle this smartly.

Why is this so easy for her?

Why am I not good enough for the one that I have given 25 years to?

Do you detach to ease your pain or to let the spouse see what they are missing.

After reading her email, and not responding, I opened a package on my desk with my copy of DR. I will start reading it today.