Originally Posted By: sandi2
Yep, you've been friend-zoned. That's why that stuff doesn't work with wayward wives. She might as well be your gay friend b/c she feels no sparks for you. The chemistry is not there for her.......and you can be her BFF till the cows come home, and she still won't feel attraction.

I think it's great when a couple has tons of fun together, but there needs to be chemistry.....too, or they might as well be brother & sister.

Have you finished your books yet?


Yeah I was thinking that I had been friend-zoned by reading this. I was pretty much thinking that already. I guess I am wondering is there any hope of getting out of the friend zone? Any advice you have I would appreciate. I have a feeling its more important than ever now to follow the 37 rules and start standing up for myself.

I did read a book on NG Syndrome which was very insightful and very helpful. I haven't finished the DB book yet but will make that a priority.


Me:37 W:30
S10 S9 D3
M-Sept 2004 D-Nov 2007
Reconcile Sept 2010
Re-Married Sept 2014
BD ILYBNILWY - April 2016
W Wants to Move to Apartment - Sept 2016
W Moved to Apartment - Nov 10 2016