To call this whole experience a rollercoaster is putting it mildly.
I have a question to ya'all out there . . .
On the weekends, H will tag along on outings with my son. Why does he do this? Is it his guilt again? Is he just bored? Or is it confusion?
I know for certain he is still pursuing OW. She is currently in another relationship, but still texts with my husband and talks with him on the phone, and they see each other at work. (I don't get it.) I suspect she is waiting/hoping for him to leave which is why she is hanging on with one foot still in the door.
He did not tell her about the job interview 400 miles away. I don't get that either.
Ugh. I am trying to understand. Understanding makes me more empathetic and patient. It helps make this easier to process when I know "why."
