Well, first off, 'baby momma' means no disrespect. I just don't know exactly what to call my hopefully soon to be ex wife, so I thought it was just a humorous take on that. I apologize to the women here, I did not mean it in a bad way.

I appreciate the feedback, very good stuff here as is to be expected.

I can see why she is pulling away right now, it makes sense.

I forgot about those parts of DR regarding attraction. Thank you for the reminder.

Like I said, when we decided to go have a beer that initial date, I didn't expect us to fall quickly. I do feel like the time we've spent apart has cleared my head, and my GAL has never been stronger. (regarding GAL, i had to have surgery on my other knee as well, so my whole summer has been kinda limited, which sucked!)


Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16