I just got the following text from my H when we were texting about financial stuff and the fact he will be filing soon.

"I have just moved on from us in my heart. I know I should have told you but I can't go back now and this is what I want. I failed and I will live with that and I am sorry that I hurt you."

Guess that answers my question about standing. I will no longer drag my feet and just proceed as he wishes.


Me: 42
Him: 45
Daughter: 13
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Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years
BD: 8/15/16
Moved out: 8/26/16