I just got the following text from my H when we were texting about financial stuff and the fact he will be filing soon.
"I have just moved on from us in my heart. I know I should have told you but I can't go back now and this is what I want. I failed and I will live with that and I am sorry that I hurt you."
Guess that answers my question about standing. I will no longer drag my feet and just proceed as he wishes.
Me: 42 Him: 45 Daughter: 13 ____________________________________ Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years BD: 8/15/16 Moved out: 8/26/16