I think her concerns are quite valid. The guy she sees a future with is still married and dealing with custody. She's got a baby, and is divorced and wants to start her future.
I don't think it's a matter of not being attracted to you enough. That isn't what keeps a serious relationship together. She just wen through a divorce and has her and a baby to worry about.
You both went real fast. There is a reason why they usually say wait until your actually divorced to get serious with someone. It becomes complicated especially with so many young kids involved. maybe she needs to step back and evaluate the situation to make sure it's the best choice for her and her baby. Give her space. I sure do agree with that. don't appear needy or desperate. focus on you and your kids and the current situation you have at hand with the divorce and custody. That probably should be number one right now.
