2lady thank you for your responses however you do not know me. I never mentioned you particularly as 'attacking' however I find some comments quite scathing but each to their own. Comments like 'driving people away from her' aren't really constructive, but again you have your opinion.
I post in here to vent when I can't in other areas. I thought that was what this was here for ..to vent on your own thread.
Yes my confidence has been thrown....however I spend most of my everyday life being confident..if I demonstrate on this forumthings that make me feel anxious or feelings I keep hidden to others I think that is fair.
I am not a victim, I am just another woman who has been shattered by her husbands deceit towards me and our children.
