Infidelity/WAH, my story pt 5

[Surfer]

PsySara,

A friend and I were talking. He came over for dinner - we drank far too much red wine so watched a film the next day rather than mountain biking - he ho (I am not sure it's GAL or G a Hangover but hey!). I digress. I was talking about my S6. He is a bit nervous of falling off his bike. My friend has cycled the world literally - he has a problem I think!!! LoL. Anyway, he told me to tell me S6 this:

"You only needs to look where you want to go and the bike will take you there."

It's true. I think it is also true about relationships (but many other things too). You are not falling apart. You are getting your relationship back on track. It's just a bumpy road. Keep focusing on that stage ahead where you are able to start and reconcile, to smile warmly and feel in love again. If you feel the opposite, it may never happen.

The tricky part, is detaching to the point you can take it or leave it - and you kind of need two approaches in my view. The problem is if you don't detach, you won't be the person you are at your core and it's the person at your core they need to see and you them.

Surfer.