Well, I messed up pretty good this past week. A little back story first: Over the past 2 years my W and I have become pretty good friends with one of our neighbors. We talk all the time, play board games, have dinners together, ect.
Well here is where I messed up: The day after my W moved out (last Monday) my neighbor asked me where she was. I completely broke down and rambled on and on about most of everything that was going on with our sitch while sobbing my eyes out. I immediately regretted this breakdown but it was too late at this point. Well, I specifically asked her to keep that private as I shouldn't have done that. This weekend apparently she told another neighbor who happens to be the drama queen of the cul-de-sac that we live on...well this neighbor then proceeded to call my W and tell her that she needs to be careful who her friends are and told her that she knows some things about the sitch now. Obviously my W is furious at me for blabbing (and I'm furious at myself for this one seeing as I have a couple friends and my mom to talk to) and I am mad at my neighbor for betraying my trust. Now of course W says that if she decides to come back it can't be in that house,Which I understand to an extent. So that will just add another level of complexity to our sitch if/when that time comes.
It was a decent weekend until all of that unfolded. I'm so disappointed in my so called "friend". Now it will be very awkward that it will be a strictly professional-like relationship with the neighbor.
