Now that things have come to this point, I agree with SH that it's a blessing for your h to be out of the house.
You need the space. You have done what you morally should and then some. You say that he's been depressed in the past as well, which means that it's really all him.
He needs to save him. You can be there to give support but you cannot be his legs. He needs to learn to carry his own weight. Please don't try to save him.
(((Cherry)))
I don't think skank can cope with this. Let her see if this is what she wants to deal with.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
