thanks all for the response. I have read and read and read again. Really trying to change my thinking and actions.
Was wondering if anybody had this experience where the husband spends 7 weeks ignoring you, professing how you are a 0.0 in his life. And then, all of a sudden, without any conversation or anything happening, starts being nice. Saying I love you, buying small gifts, kissing on forehead or cheek, asking how I am.