At sons soccer tournament, W's new friend (also a single mom) came and spoke to me telling me how sick W was... I basically said it was a shame and she seems to be sick a lot over this past months. Personally I know this is because of stress, it's what her body does when she is not looking after herself.
Felt my first wobble in the last few weeks in having the feeling of doing something to help her out. When I was making dinner, it did cross my mind of taking her some but I refrained with the thoughts of this is her decision and she wants to look after herself rather than have the support of her family.
Tournament went ok, sons team is young but they did alright. Played with D3 in between the games. We picked up an ice cream on the way home and then they both helped me changed the tires for the winter ones.
Chatted with one of my buddies who married one of my W's cousins (it was at their wedding that me and W met). He was telling me that his W had reached out to mine but got no response.... is in keeping with her mindset of shutting the people/family out that will potentially disagree with her actions...
