Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not

[SH_]

Thanks SH. I shall revisit that chapter of db and refresh myself.

Yeah, him not living here is both and advantage and a disadvantage. The bad part is that I now have absolutely no idea as to what he has done or if he is well. But the distance can help with pulling back.

I would encourage that you think of it simply as an advantage.
It will give him space to do what he needs too get straight with himself if he chooses.
The distance will allow you to be outside the ring of toxicity and you will heal and gain strength much from this.
It is not your responsibility to ensure that he is well...he is an adult...and I know that your heart will tell you that you should protect him, but listen to your mind as well...it will tell you that you have done all that you can to this point...you are the mother of 2 that do need you and that you are responsible for...pray for him...this is in your power...this is all that is left for you to do at this time.

I'm taking care of me and my babies. Making sure everything carries on as normal in my household.

Spoken like the true Warrior Queen that you are...

She could be gentle, kind and loving but let no one be fooled – she was a Warrior Queen who had the strength and courage to conquer all that life tossed her way. Queenisms