Thanks for the response. I just got caught up on your thread and you're right, sounds pretty similar. I will follow along and hopefully we both come out of this as better people with stronger marriages.
Me:42 W:37 M:18 T:23 3S: 4,7,10 EA 6/16 ILYBNILWY 7/16 9/16 separate BR 10/16 Discernment Counseling She's moving out 1/17