Sorry about your situation. Ours have many similarities. Read up around here (especially sandi's stuff like the stickies on ww) and make a plan. My journey towards no contact was(is?) long and am now working on transparency. Hang in there.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om
