I'm glad your pa has been staying w/you for a bit. I'm sure he's enjoyed himself. I'm sure your kitchen is spotless now, not that it wasn't before. He really did try to help by doing the dishes. I'm sure you had suds everywhere, but you did find the humor in the situation.
I'm sorry your chest is doing poorly. I hope that you are feeling better soon.
I hope that the tenats didn't leave too much of a mess, i.e., painting, carpeting replaced, etc. for you to do.
You have so many balls up in the air...I do hope that you can find some time to carve out for a little bit of "me time".
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.