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Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not Painter #2710461 10/16/16 02:18 PM
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PsySara Member P Joined: May 2016 Posts: 791	It is not for you to save him. He needs professional help and therapy to develop good coping skills. This where it is vital that you lovingly detach. You let him know that you love him unconditionally but that he MUST seek the help he needs. He has no idea what he wants, he is floundering. You must not swim in and try to tread water with him, he'll pull you down. Instead toss in the life preserver (someone who is a professional) and let him swim to shore. M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3

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Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/15/16 04:25 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/15/16 05:11 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/15/16 05:19 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/15/16 05:23 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	AndrewP	10/15/16 06:02 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	lt0402	10/15/16 06:07 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/16/16 12:07 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Vanilla	10/16/16 02:34 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/16/16 08:43 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Painter	10/16/16 08:52 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/16/16 11:17 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/16/16 11:19 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Vanilla	10/16/16 01:04 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	PsySara	10/16/16 02:18 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/16/16 03:13 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	SH_	10/16/16 03:50 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/16/16 04:30 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	SH_	10/16/16 04:40 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/16/16 05:19 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	SH_	10/16/16 07:26 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/17/16 12:14 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	roist	10/17/16 12:38 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/17/16 03:56 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/17/16 04:18 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/17/16 04:23 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/17/16 04:48 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/17/16 05:25 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/17/16 05:42 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/17/16 05:53 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/17/16 10:08 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/17/16 01:09 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	DDJ	10/18/16 01:01 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/18/16 01:27 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	DDJ	10/18/16 01:29 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/18/16 02:28 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/18/16 02:56 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	PsySara	10/18/16 03:11 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/18/16 04:10 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	SH_	10/18/16 04:26 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/18/16 04:55 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/18/16 05:16 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/18/16 05:16 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	DDJ	10/18/16 11:14 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/18/16 11:47 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/18/16 03:33 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Painter	10/18/16 04:17 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Ginger1	10/18/16 04:29 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	PsySara	10/18/16 04:43 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/18/16 04:47 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/19/16 01:06 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/19/16 01:40 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/19/16 03:03 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/19/16 03:15 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Ginger1	10/19/16 04:59 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/19/16 06:09 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/19/16 06:23 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/19/16 06:36 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/19/16 06:36 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/19/16 01:19 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/19/16 01:43 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/19/16 03:11 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/19/16 04:33 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	AndrewP	10/19/16 05:43 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/19/16 06:10 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Coly23	10/19/16 11:20 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Vanilla	10/20/16 02:57 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/20/16 04:05 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/20/16 05:58 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/20/16 06:51 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/20/16 08:06 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	BluWave	10/20/16 09:47 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/20/16 02:47 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Vanilla	10/20/16 03:28 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	PsySara	10/20/16 03:39 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/20/16 04:16 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	PsySara	10/20/16 05:38 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/20/16 05:54 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/20/16 06:25 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/21/16 01:42 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Sotto	10/21/16 10:46 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/21/16 01:35 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/21/16 05:56 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Altair	10/21/16 06:31 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	ForGump	10/21/16 07:22 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/21/16 07:54 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/22/16 01:19 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/22/16 01:56 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Sotto	10/22/16 02:16 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	PsySara	10/22/16 03:44 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/22/16 04:34 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/22/16 05:10 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/22/16 05:52 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/22/16 06:34 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Vanilla	10/22/16 02:24 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/22/16 02:59 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/22/16 03:18 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	JksD	10/22/16 04:45 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/22/16 04:53 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/22/16 04:57 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/23/16 12:21 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/23/16 12:30 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cherry	10/23/16 07:56 AM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/23/16 12:42 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Surfer	10/23/16 12:56 PM
Re: Cherry. He's gone, but the drama has not	Cadet	10/24/16 05:21 AM

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