Sandi- very much interested in your comments. I have read a ton of your advice.

My wife has been selfish this year I did not notice at first. She was not hugging or kissing our daughter before bedtime. Yesterday I asked her to do that and she did. All nice no tone.

She has done a few things like this that I have asked since becoming detached. I spooked her I feel and understand she is working me too.

H (me) 52, W 42
M 15
D14, S12
PA June and Sept 2016
Found out Sept, confronted Oct
NC with OM since Oct, remorseful
Dating since Nov