I love your ship/pilot analogy and I agree Job is definitely helping to steer us in the right direction as long as you listen to her and don't do a stupid thing like I have just done and send another stupid text to H!
Me: Did your Mum make you a nice cake? H: ...................................... (Can you hear the silence, it's deafening!)
Arrrgggghhh, I hate this so much! Why does he hate me!!!
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')