If we push too hard, you will report back that you and W are getting along really well. If we don't have much to add, then you come back with how you know you need to separate.....or know that W still want to S and move on, and how lonely you feel.
When it became too intense from the board, you stopped posting. When you returned, I tried to encourage you to take a different approach, but you will not stop repeating this same old crap!! it doesn't matter what we say, you stay stuck. I thought you were interested in SH's help, but you quickly shut down when you saw it required action.
Listen Ghost, we can't help a person who refuses to be helped. There have been so many amazing people (who are suffering from their own situations), to spend countless hours trying to help you. I don't know what you want from the board. Can you tell us what you are seeking when you write the same things over and over? Are you wanting comfort, friendship, advice, someone to just listen...............what?
I don't remember anyone on the board who has caused me to become as frustrated, and to the point of being ready to toss the idea of ever offering another word ........only to feel the strings of compassion pulled at my heart, again. I just don't know what more to say to you. I sincerely want you to get help.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
