Welcome and sorry you are here. You sound like you are in a good place though.
Do not tell her you know about the A.
You will find a lot of good support and advice here. Keep doing your 180s.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...