Job, I did have a chat with my son and did pretty much say what you mentioned.
I asked him why he'd asked his dad that now....he didn't really know.....but did say that he wanted his dad to come back. I said that the way his dad is acting is not the way anyone should behave. If someone is unhappy they sort it out not do this. I said to my son that your dad does love you and this is nothing to do with you but at the moment he thinks this is what he wants. I don't know if he will come back and I said to my son I was sorry.
2lady, I don't understand what you mean to say I don't do a single thing. I am there for our children when they are hurting, I am there to answer any questions or support them on things that matter to them. I provide a roof over their head by paying the mortgage . I gone back to work this year with a more positive attitude and am working really hard to get urn around the mess I was last year. I keep myself busy with either the kids or myself as much as I can .....
The posts on her go back months so yes things do go up and down and this morning I had a down but yesterday was an up.