I'm all about legal separation as it provides protection without the finality. Good luck.
Also waiting to see who Sara recommends reading up on. Good for all of us!
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om