Saw a text yesterday between my oldest son and h. Oldest son asked h why he left. H said ?... son said why did you split up h said you know why things weren't good between me and your mum...then he said...I didn't leave you I'm always there for you.
It winds me up am afraid that he still uses me shouting at him as the excuse but won't admit that he was carrying on.
We were in a marriage and yes I can accept it had got routine but he decided to do the I'm unhappy I don't love you rather than talking to me properly and he did nothing during that 2. And a half months to make things right. It makes me mad that the way I reacted to his behaviour is still his excuse for walking out in his family.
He can justify it all he wants...he did walk out on his kids and he moved in with ow 6 months later. Am I mad?
