Ugh, Facebook! No normal person would announce his ' conscious uncoupling' to the world like some celebrity unless he has some serious issues! You must see that this isn't your H!
Why did he make it such an important act to your seperation? Because it's all about him. If he was sensitive to YOUR feelings he would have asked you if it was ok and agreed on some suitable wording but instead he just told you what he was going to do.
I too keep asking why me. Why did I have the husband who ran out. Although I would never wish this on anyone I have four sisters and a two of them have got husbands who you would not be surprised if they did this but they have stayed in their marriages through thick and thin. It isn't fair!
I also looked through all the texts and emails prior to BD. The anniversary, birthday and Valentine cards all professing deep love and affection, saying how much he is looking forward to the future and how lucky he is to have me in his life. It really is confusing for us LBS.
You are doing the best they you can Amy. Don't put too much pressure on yourself to move forward too quickly. Do it in your own time as everyone says it is a marathon and not a sprint. Take care.
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')
