Job -- I am a wimp and I hate this pain. BUT .. I understand and will try to cut myself some slack. Since it has happened -- I started working more hours, trying to compensate for my h being gone with my D, and researching MLC. I'm trying to fill any free moment I have because when I have free time I think about him.
My family has told me that I need to try harder for my daughter's sake and maybe I'm just trying to make the pain go away. I don't want my actions, my hurt to have a negative influence on her.
I found a group called divorcecare and have been attending that. Most of the people I'm the group are already divorced or have been separated for quite some time. They also do not recognize MLC at all. But I am getting good advice there. We watch a video, but there really is not any open discussion.
I appreciate the positive thoughts. Thank you!!
Me: 42 Him: 45 Daughter: 13 ____________________________________ Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years BD: 8/15/16 Moved out: 8/26/16
