I've been going through old threads of successful DB'ers. Some divorced and then ended up remarrying their spouse. I like reading the threads by the males as they tend to be very solution focused (the guys that respond to the thread starter) and give concrete do's and don'ts. It's like reading a strategy guide to DBing, lol.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3