Yes I recognized I was snippy with STBX. It seems she and I are better at parallel parenting because unless I just do things her way, I get nothing but criticism. I do not deserve that from her anymore.
I did speak with L and she advises I do whatever I like after the D. I want to make sure the D happens also.
The next time STBX will find out if I am moving is when I file the paperwork to request change of domicile.
I have flip flopped for a year and am done. Just want to settle in a place and raise the boys and start to GAL. I am ready to meet new people and build some new friendships without STBX.
If she wants to push the SAHM thing through the legal system there, nothing I can do about it. On her.
I just want out of her life completely.
H-46 XW-38 T-7 M-6 S-9,8,8,6,4 S 11/30/15, I filed 12/8/15 EA 2/1/16 D dismissed 3/24/16 PA 3/18/16 confirmed 4/22/16 XW files for D 4/1/16 - D final 11/17/16 Finally moving forward...