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I've just got back from the hospital, baby is fine. Thank god.

The midwives asked me about home life and I broke down in tears. They said contact the none emergency police. Thing is he's has left his car at my house. Won't answer the phone to anyone. Won't answer texts. We don't know who his new friends are. Don't even know if he's home. I seriously think he needs hospitalisation. Even my mama reached out to him and said she is there to listen,no arguements no judging.


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EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
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Cherry,

This could be a cry for attention. However, please don't assume this. I would call emergency services or oat least NHS Direct.

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He has a history of suicide attempts. I would assume he is serious this time too and follow Sara's advice and seek help from the police immediately. If you don't know where he is right now maybe they can help track him down.

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If his phone is still with him and the battery still operating they may be able to trace his location.

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What. A. Day. I think it's time for a new thread too.

Contacted the none emergency police, they passed me over to emergency. They took all the details of him. At the time the car was parked on my road as it had been all day. Not on my driveway, but across the road. This evening, within 20 mins of me going out. His car had gone, so I contacted them to make them away and give the specifics. An officer called me to say they had spoken with him, and he blagged he said nothing if the sort and he's fine. They asked him to voluntarily come to the station tonight to speak with them for a wellness check, or they'd come and find him. He agreed to do that, but that was several hours ago and he hasn't come in. An officer has just been, they filed a missing persons and took a lot of details and they will keep us posted. Cry for attention or not, I don't know. I sent several texts earlier on in the day, this goes against db. I didn't beg for him to return to the m. I just said how he was loved, he has the family and we will be there for him. But he's ignored all, and he's lied to one officer. He may hate me for this. But if god forbid he was to do what he threatened, I would never have forgiven myself if I hadn't taken him serious.


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BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
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Yeah 2lady, they took all details number, network. Names of any friends, I did name ow- I didn't say I knew for definite if she was with with him, but said he claims she is a friend. They said they need anyone's name as a possible lead.

They have his car licence plate so I'm sure with all speed cameras and traffic officers, they can find that no problem.


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BD: 1/15
EA: 2/15
PA: 4/15
reconciling: 4/15
ILYBINILWY- 11/15
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I think you did the right thing with sending the texts. He may get angry, but better angry than dead.

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((Cherry))). You did the right thing. Sounds like a crazy crazy day. Take care of yourself!!


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You and your family are in my thoughts.


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You did the right thing. If he's angry it's because he was using it as a manipulation tactic.


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Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
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