For me detached would be where I know I love and respect my W but I do not follow her moods as I am happy in who I am independently. Without interdependency but still with love.
Is that just a feeling that you think will happen at some point?
Originally Posted By: Surfer
I would be happy to be together or apart and ultimately the choice there is hers, subject to her coming back being in mutually acceptable grounds.
Presume that makes sense.
Surfer.
You say the choices are hers. Why are her choices dictating you?
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
