For me detached would be where I know I love and respect my W but I do not follow her moods as I am happy in who I am independently. Without interdependency but still with love. I would be happy to be together or apart and ultimately the choice there is hers, subject to her coming back being in mutually acceptable grounds.
Presume that makes sense.
Surfer.
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