Hi kdvor, just a message to welcome you and offer support.
As you will find we all have spouses who feel unfulfilled, and this terrible path is their "solution" to it. Hopefully in time they will see it does nothing to ease their pain.
Keep the focus on you, and ensure you are able to cope and get some happiness out of life, this path is long and winding.
Best wishes


M 10, T 18
M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6
EA: Oct 12
ILYBINILWY: Jan 15
BD: Aug 15
Separated: Sep 15
Miss you: Jun 16
Aug 16: Dating (!)
Oct 16: Selfishness returns...
currently: disgusted