Amy - of course he will spin it that way to make himself feel better. That's why I call FB: Fakebook. It always interests me that they re-write the history differently to different audiences.
As for him being excited about his plans, in his heyday of replay my h was practically giddy as he was going out! Picture a teenage girl preparing for prom. Several months later, that waned and he would look so miserable the next day. Guess he didn't find the solution to what ailed him.
Just keep taking care of you and your daughter. You are doing awesome!!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced