So you are not going to wait a year before moving up there?
You recently told a poster that you made the decision to not move (the first time) b/c it was cheaper to live in Michagan. Now, it's cheaper to live in Canada.
Why do you think that moving closer to her will get you out of this limbo?
Have you told the lawyer you wanted to cancel the divorce?
Can you share some of the advice you received from your DB coach? Did s/he think you should move?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
