Hi Amy

I tend to lurk around reading and only post if I feel I have anything to contribute.

So, that stuff on Facebook is sadly basic MLC script. My W did the same, but in person to all our neighbours. 'Mutual decision', 'we're going to be friends' etc. is, as job says, MLC bollox to make themselves feel better about what they are doing and negating the guilt.

I would have hoped, by now, you have been reading all the stuff that Cadet sent you in your 'welcome' post (I know there is a lot), but you are doing well and just try and not fall to pieces.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015