I'm sorry you had to see that stuff...but that's typical of someone who has left. They want everyone to think it's a mutual decision to leave the marriage because he doesn't want to look like the bad guy. If he can convince others of what he's said, then they won't look at him differently or question him as to why he's done it.
Of course, he doesn't want you to be treated any differently...why should you be? You've done nothing wrong.
Omg! He's the super duper Disney dad! No, his #1 priority is himself. He'll love all of his friends as long as they buy into his story. I think I hear the bug playing the violin w/tears rolling down his little cheeks.
Oh, yeah! He's got plans and he's happy as a clam in mud. Yes, he's in crisis for sure. Don't buy into anything he says and only believe half of what he does.
It's time for Amy to take are of Amy so that you can get well.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
