Thanks Sotto, Andrew, Esame, Job, Huddy, Ciluzen and Ginger. You guys are amazing!
Just thinking further about what I said above. I am thinking I should tell HIM to come discuss it face to face when he wants. This IS the way things work in the real world. When I have a problem with someone I contact the person. I don't send nasty page long texts and then correspond all via text like we're 12.
He needs to start coming to me when he has things to discuss. And yes, he says the most foul things via text!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced
