Alright, here's another question. WW's BF has been arrested for domestic violence a couple of times. Should u have it put in the D papers that he can have no contact with my daughter? My lawyer says we can. Right no I don't trust WW's judgement with this.
If she moves in with him the judge will give you full custody due to his prior convictions for DA. I can't believe she'd put her child around such a person. That should tell you how lost she is right now. That's why you trying to reason with her is futile. In this affair state she can't be reasoned with. DETACH. Schedule fun things to do with the kid without her.
I'm getting better at detaching. Actually going out with a friend tonight. Every time some brings up BFs domestic violence WW just says "he's changed". BS. Supposedly she's only even been talking to him ab 7 or 8 weeks. I know he's not the issue with our M but he is an issue. Especially where my D is concerned.
Went out with an old friend tonight. Had a great time. She kind of fussed at me ab still wearing my wedding band. Any thoughts? Should I stop wearing it?
Sad-dad, it's a painful choice. My H stopped wearing his when we separated, it was hard to see, there I was, with mine on. (this was June-july) I wore mine for awhile ( a few months Aug-sept) for security, for sadness. I'm ringless now. I feel naked, but it reminds me of the reality of the journey.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016
Well what was feeling like a pretty good night just got depressing. I was reading DB while my daughter was watching TV. Started dozing off so I put the book down and rested my head. I fell asleep on the couch. Woke up a couple hours later a little disoriented. Came to bed looking for W then realized she wasn't there and may never be again. I miss her so bad. Even after everything that's happened I still love her with all of my heart. I said a prayer once again putting it in Gods hands. I know there's nothing I can do to fix the situation. I have to keep trying to detach and GAL. I'm trying but it all still hurts so bad. Does it ever get better?
Bad news is when I went to bed had trouble getting to sleep. Kept waking up bc I was dreaming ab W. Gonna do some stuff around the house today. Try to keep busy. Good news is going out with some more friends tonight. Going to a haunted hay ride. Looking forward to that.
I'm not trying to be insensitive. Can anyone tell me of a story similar to mine where the WW actually DID come back and they were able to R? Does it ever really happen?
