Happy(late) birthday, Feyth! Yeah, keep up the amazing GAL. You let him deal with his decisions while you make lemonade, lemon bars, lemon chiffon pie, and lemon-frikkin-cello out of those lemons he rolled your way. As Esame said, not your circus...
I keep thinking of my H saying that he wasn't going to do a happy dance when our D was final, but that he made me miserable and it was our best chance for us both being happy. Catch 22 much? I GAL and get happy all by myself, I prove him right. I waste away in misery to prove him wrong,...well, then I'm right, he's wrong, and I'm miserable. So, we just have to not care who's right or wrong, get happy, and leave him to eating peanuts and throwing pooh with his monkey friends.
You have a right to be happy and he has the right to hit bottom. If he ever decides to turn to you, you can make the decision that is best for you on whether to piece that R together again. Til then, his monkeys can have his back.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
