I have merged your two threads together. The reason for this is that we continue posting to one thread until we've reached the 100th posting/reply count. By sticking to one thread, it makes it easier for us to follow your situation and the progress you make along your journey. Also, it makes it easier for you to go back and review your journey too. You can also change the subject line within a thread at any time.
I am going to suggest that you read HaWho's threads as her husband is in MLC and living in the dorm room and continues to act out. She's got the patience of a saint.
Also, read all of the homework. Have you read the DB and DR books? If not, you need to get them or at least the DR book (it's the most recent one).
