Firstly I wanted to ask "how are you" and to send you strength and hugs.
None of use here has exprience of what you are going through, as our norms are so different. However if I was to hazard a guess I would say that your H will feel a combination of the 4 options you described. Or he might be so into the marriage preparations and excitement that he will just be relieved to know you are ok, and you need the space and you respectfully offer him the time to do this as per your religion and traditions.
I hope you are coping well, and that you are taking care of yourself.
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
