Funny you post that bunny situation was kind of similar. When WW and I first started talking she would be like I know you are loving this... having the upper hand. I was like... say what?? Turns out she was miserable and I was the one who was doing great... crazy how that could even be the case right? I mean we gave them exactly what they want right? I think them being miserable and realizing that we are not the source of their unhappiness is a huge huge step.
I did not flaunt it openly either... but they find out. WW admitted that she would go out of her way to check in on me. It's crazy!