Eating Life with a Big Spoon

[bttrfly]

i am sorry to read this new development. the $ issue is a big button for me, as during the time my exh and i lived together during his mlc he controlled the money to the point of actually having bank accounts without my name on them and would dole out $ as he felt i needed it. i cannot tell you how many times i went to the grocery store and had my debit card declined. i still get anxious every time i use a card to buy something, even though i know there.s no reason to. Ha I tell you these things because I want you to know beyond any doubt that having your own "move my tent to another village in a hurry if i need to" money is imperative, I think, to peace of mind and absolutely nothing to feel guilty about. hang in there xoxoxo