Reality will bite your h and the skank. But don't hold your breath while waiting.
Should the D proceed, you don't have to go for the jugular but please don't make my mistake of trying to nice your H back. Go for what is fair and reasonable and then some.
In legal aspects, this is where I tend to be more hard-nosed and in more favour of tougher consequences.
Also, leave the dirty job to your L. Continue to be civil.
You can call me Dory/ Grl.
As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"
It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.
