Originally Posted By: Bworl
Mat,
You're hoping against all hope that she is going to change her mind about the apartment. As a result, you are avoiding anything that might upset her and make her firm up her resolve to leave.

Isn't that right? Honestly?



Bill,

You are right... I hate to admit it but that is exactly what I am hoping for. Been doing a lot of reading today about NG Syndrome and realizing a lot of my actions I am doing is because of FEAR. I need to do some thinking and then start to work on some action because what I am doing right now isn't working... I appreciate you stopping by and giving me some insight.


Me:37 W:30
S10 S9 D3
M-Sept 2004 D-Nov 2007
Reconcile Sept 2010
Re-Married Sept 2014
BD ILYBNILWY - April 2016
W Wants to Move to Apartment - Sept 2016
W Moved to Apartment - Nov 10 2016