Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #5]

[mulesqb]

I and others close to her have told her that she needs professional help, and she gets angry. Most advice I've read about BPD says the sufferer will reject help until s/he hits rock bottom -- and even then, maybe.

This is a tough trail to navigate. Been there. Done that. Didn't work. She ended up severing ties with everyone who told her to get help. She got help a few years later and now sees my kids twice a month for about an hour and a half. Unfortunately she will have to make the decision to go herself no matter how much collateral damage is caused. It will require you to exhibit enormous strength and honor.

This is not an easy journey FG. More important than ever to take care of yourself. Keep your body and your mind healthy. Be that person you strive for. The one your kids look up to. Strong, steady, kind and loving. Lovingly detach. Become that leading man. That's attractive. You can handle this.

I'm having a rough week. Too much pressure @ work, so have been working around the clock, w/ little time for myself. Should be better next week.

TGIF..Go attack the weekend. Get your rest. Than go GAL. Embrace the journey. All good rides have highs and lows.

Strength and Honor.

Mules